An unnamed police officer from the North Ridgeville Police Department in Ohio posted a letter on the departmentโs Facebook page early Sunday morning that has already gone viral.
The officer believes the ticket he gave the boy saved his life or the life of some innocent person who did nothing more than have the misfortune to be in front of him. The boy was traveling 100 mph in a good 65 mph zone.
It’s a great letter every youthful driver should see!
To the 18 year old kid I stopped on SR 10,
Youโre welcome. Iโd like to believe that you were minutes away from creating an unspeakable Christmas tragedy when I stopped you. If not only killing yourself, you were well on your way to killing some innocent person who was minding their own business doing nothing else wrong but being in front of you.
You said you didnโt realize how fast you were going. Thatโs a lie. You may not realize when youโre doing 45 in a 35 but you are fully aware of every mile per hour at 100. You realize it with every bump you hit. You realize it as you pass cars so fast the wind moves your car. You realize it every time you drift over the line and when you move the wheel the car reacts a lot quicker than youโre used to. You absolutely realized it.
You were scared when I stopped you. You were visibly shaking and breathing hard. Unfortunately, you were scared one minute too late and for the wrong reason. You should have been scared that you were trying to kill yourself. I know youโre invincible. I know that you canโt even fathom your own death.
I can tell you dozens of stories of dead and broken 18 year old bodies that Iโve pulled from cars. Broken bodies that Iโve found in front yards after crashes. Unrecognizable bodies. They thought they were invincible too. They werenโt. They were gone so they missed the part where I had to tell their parents that they were dead. Part of your soul disappears every time you have to tell parents that their kid is dead.
I donโt KNOW your parents, but I know them. I know that when you leave every day they say โBe careful. Drive safe.โ Those arenโt just words. That is the very last act of them pleading with you to come home safe. When they get a knock on the door, itโs not โGood afternoon maโam. Your 18 year old son just had a massive heart attack. Itโs โCan we sit down? Your son has been involved in a very serious crash. Iโm so sorry. Heโs died.โ When you leave the house they know that, far and away, the best chance you have of dying that day is in that car. Sometimes youโre the innocent person hit by someone with no regard for anyone else and sometimes youโre the one with no regard for anyone else. Today you were the latter.
You seemed like a really nice kid who made a bad decision. I donโt feel bad about this ticket at all. In fact, Iโm proud of it. I hope youโre paying it off for months and with every payment you think about how it wasnโt worth it. I hope you slow down. I hope that when your mom tells you to โdrive safeโ you make a promise to her, and yourself, that you will. I hope you can envision me sitting in your kitchen telling your screaming mother that you have been killed.
Slow down. Please. You are not invincible. I promise.
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